Traditional Anglican:---
I'd expect this post from one of the many arminians on this site but... you as a Reformed Episcopalian ARE a Calvinist!
Open up the The Book of Common Prayer and read the Articles of Religion.
Almighty God chooses us--- We don't choose Him. {see Jacab and Esau}
We are born Sinners and only God's Unmerited Favor can keep us from the Pit.
All humans are Born Dead---> Not just sick,,, but DEAD! Only The Lord God can give us life!