Just an added note to Connie:
I find it quite instructive that although you joined this Forum one day after me - You have twice (double) as many posts as I have since we both joined up (and I have been fairly active). In addition, although I have been here about the same time as you, I have yet to start a thread - just an observation (something for you to consider).
I asked the question in my first post and I will ask it again: Have you come here to just "instruct" us? Or have you come here to participate in a give and take Forum where we are looking not only to instruct others, but to receive instruction also? hhmmm?