beloved57...

You aren't talking about eternal security, you are talking about pre-destination. The pre-destination in the Bible has to do with what's pre-destined for Christians as a result of them accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour. Your doctrine of pre-destination is self-refuting and if you feel that way, that's really too bad. To think God created some to be saved and other to be damned isn't even provable Scripturally.

2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.